It’s coming up again: Valentine’s day. As a child, I had never heard of it. I like it and at the same time, I do not care about it. Twenty-seven years ago my father died on that day. (or is it twenty-six or twenty-eight years ago? I lost count after all those years.) For a long, long time, Valentine’s day made me think of his death.
I do like giving presents. I love to give small gifts. A small gesture, long remembered. It’s not about giving a gift. It is about me giving something to someone. It is about the fact that I let someone know I care. Of course, the small gift can also be a massage or a message. It does not have to be Valentine’s day, though, to do so.
On the website of the ‘Fully in Tune’ it says:
‘The starting point is complete acceptance of one’s inner self and others. To do so, one stays open and connected. Loving can also imply strong reactions and emotions; you get what you need, that might not be what you want’.
This text concerning ‘loving’ can be found on this website. It is number 2 in the row of the Core Values of the ‘Fully in Tune.’
All core values
‘Loving’ to me is an accumulation of the rest of the core values:
– Sign sensitive
Is this love?
Love is about a healthy balance in connection with your inner self and the outer world. It is important to live enough of your own life. When you only think of yourself, you might be called selfish. Sometimes it is necessary to be ‘selfish’. Be sensitive to your own needs, even when they are different than the ones of you parents, your children, your partner, your boss, your thoughts, the norms and values of the people you live with, etc. When you make others happy, without feeling happiness within yourself, something really is out of balance. Happiness starts within yourself.
Love can be complex. In the core it is simple. The aboriginals, Indians, Earth-keepers, Gate-keepers, Wisdom-keepers, people who still are closely associated with the wisdom of life, know generally much better what true love means. It is not associated with emotions. It is associated with core wisdom, not manipulated whatsoever. They can see with something other than their physical eyes, what is necessary for someone to heal. True love is not the same than emotional love. I could give a workshop concerning this topic.
Opening your heart is essential for true love. Get inspiration in a holistic way. Become sensitive to your own needs, your own true needs, not the ones that you were taught. Find a way to understand your anxiety, your depression, your longing for new beginnings in this new era. The law of attraction implies that when you change your thoughts, your vision, your intentions and so on, you will be able to attract what your heart wants. There is a dream living in your heart. What is it? Set yourself free, find the inner freedom, your personal key to how to be loving, caring, to others and for sure also to yourself! Do some soul searching and let love in. There is more than enough knowledge and energies available these days to get inspiration to do so.
‘Fully in Tune’ is there for you. At your service.
Let’s go for new beginnings.