At your service
How can you be at your soul’s service? How can you get these feelings of contentment and fulfilling? What do you need, to know that you want to be at service of something or someone? I can go on with writing down a lot more of these questions. Fill in the blanks yourself, so I can start explaining what you can do concerning this topic.
Four service keys
You might run into the same kind of relationship over and over again. Paying attention to the pattern is important. Recognising this can give you a good start to be able to work on it. It won’t disappear by itself. ‘Recognising‘ is the first thing to remember. Then comes ‘acknowledging‘. When you identify a pattern, and you don’t accept it, you won’t grow out of it. The third point that is important to keep in mind is ‘accepting‘. Even though one writes a lot of articles and books about it, it appears to be one of the hardest issues ever! Lat but not least, you are going to be in the process of ‘letting go‘. You can’t do that with your thoughts alone, though. It all must be integrated totally. Then the pattern will leave you and you will leave the pattern for what it is.
Service, not slave
I used to think of ‘doing something that someone else wants me to do’ concerning ‘service’. As a result of my previous understanding, I would abide by doing what I was asked to do and also what I thought I was invited to do. (or not to do). As a result of that, I swallowed my anger and got constipated for years in a row. By the time I was a teenager, I had no dreams anymore, was literally and figuratively in pain. I had become a slave of being at service to my twisted mind, back then.
I like harmony. I like everybody to feel as much fulfilment as possible, in all corners & layers in our life. In order to get to such a place of harmony, there is work to do; work on all levels. Therefore ‘Fully in Tune’ has been established. The core values of the institute help me every day and in all situations, whether I like it or not. Being ‘loving’ when I really do not feel safe with someone, or being ‘open’, while the other person keeps the doors closed, still isn’t easy to do. I keep exercising it over and over again. It’s very fulfilling. Really.
How can you get this feeling of ‘fulfilling’? This also brings more harmony into your life. Exercise over and over again. Use the core values of ‘Fully in Tune’. Listen closely to the signs you get. Be as honest with yourself as possible. Never give up. You know what’s inside of you and if you don’t know it, take a closer look at the world around you: It’s a huge mirror helping you to see what’s up next.
Let every step be Light(er)