Feminine energy, also for men
Feminine energy for all of us
Whether you are a man or a woman, feminine energy is for all of us. The balance between male and female power is what I advice you to aim. You can consider the thoughts you have as the ‘hardware’: Most men still learn that what they think is more real than what they feel. However, you can consider the feelings you have as ‘software’: Most women still learn that what they feel is more real than what they think. So let’s find the bridge between both of them and enjoy the power it gives. I want to emphasise the feminine energy in this blog.
Two kinds of feelings
I teach people to explore their two kinds of feelings:
1. The ones you have because of how you think.
By changing your thoughts, there is a real chance you will get different feelings.
2. The ones you have because of your intuition.
We call this ‘intuition’, and all of us have it, whether you are a man or a woman. I call it ‘the inner knowledge’. It doesn’t have to be explained. You simply Know it.
Count on your instinct
We think it’s entirely reasonable that animals have a strong intuition. They know how to take care of themselves and most of the time the rest they learn from their parents or one of them. Many men think that working with energy is woolly. They don’t want to have anything to do with it. Yes, it can be woolly, depending on how you deal with it. Instinct is as vague, too soft. How about also much thinking: couldn’t you call this ‘too hard’? Men have intuition too, and in the long run, they thrive better when they integrate this into their daily life as well. Call it instinct; it’s alright since you can count on it. You just have to get used to it.
Without feminine energy, I would be a bitch. Since I have experienced life not safe enough to be the woman I am, I developed a way to get stronger in my male energy, even though it didn’t serve me very well. Yes, for a while, since I didn’t know how to deal with the diversity of people anyway. The older I became, the more I realised I needed myself entirely. So I have also spent the time to get in touch with the female energy. What does it mean? Well, most of the time I can let go of the bitchy part of me and still be firm. On the whole, I have learned I can express myself, my feelings, my intuitive knowing, without having to convince others. So by showing respect for others, I learned how to respect myself and vice versa. I said goodbye to the bitch and welcomed my femininity.
Stop skipping and denying this ‘software’ you have: It’s there for a reason. (hardware) All people are androgen, meaning they have both female and male energy. So why not integrate both? I invite you to do so.
Keep it simple,